What’s In A Name?

Written By Suivez-Moi

The French phrase "Suivez-moi" (pronounced swee-vay mwa) means "Follow me." It is the motto on the Hawley Coat of Arms and provides the inspiration for my end-of-life doula business.

The surname Hawley is derived from a hedged meadow. The Coat of Arms features a green field, called vert in heraldy. In addition to symbolizing nature the green field can also represent:

  • Hope: Symbolizing a positive outlook and optimism for the future.

  • Joy: Representing happiness and a lighthearted spirit.

  • Loyalty in Love: Signifying faithfulness and steadfast affection.

  • Freshness: Suggesting new beginnings, growth, and vitality.

In heraldry, the silver (white) X is called a saltire. It represents a diagonal cross and is a very common charge, a term for any object or figure placed on a shield. The specific meaning of a saltire can vary by context and family, but it is often associated with:

  • Patience in suffering: Referencing the martyrdom of St. Andrew.

  • Resolution: Symbolizing strength and determination.

  • Protection: The shape of the cross itself could be seen as a sign of defense.

  • Valor: It is a symbol that might be granted to those who have shown great courage in battle.

The saltire's tinctures (colors) also carry their own significance. When the saltire is silver or white, the color is called Argent. Argent is often said to represent sincerity, peace, and innocence.

Suivez-Moi

Michael Hawley has led a diverse and impactful professional journey that has shaped his unique calling to death work. Beginning his career in a leadership role within department store retail and the beauty industry, he honed his skills in team management and customer care. It was during the turbulent era of the 1980s in San Francisco, at the height of the AIDS crisis, that Michael's life took a profound turn.

Amidst the devastating impact of the epidemic, Michael found himself drawn to a new vocation; providing comfort and support to those nearing the end of their lives. Caring for numerous friends during their final moments, he discovered a deep sense of purpose and fulfillment in helping individuals navigate the transition from life to death. One particular experience stands out - a profound connection that became one of the most rewarding chapters in Michael's life.

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